Love and relationships
Infidelity
Breaking the commitment of faithfulness in a couple, through lies or betrayal.
What the Bible can tell you
but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Matthew 5:28
For the lips of an adulteress drip honey. Her mouth is smoother than oil,
Proverbs 5:3
Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me.
Psalms 51:10
A human reading
Infidelity leaves wounds that take a long time to heal, both for the one who betrays and the one who is hurt. Forgiving does not mean forgetting or trusting again right away. If the wound is deep, it is wise to seek help from a couples counselor.
This page offers reflection and companionship; it does not replace a professional. If what you feel weighs heavily or lasts for weeks, talk with someone you trust or with a health professional.