Love and relationships
Helping a friend in crisis
What to say and do when someone close is going through a very hard time.
What the Bible can tell you
Rejoice with those who rejoice. Weep with those who weep.
Romans 12:15
A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity.
Proverbs 17:17
So they sat down with him on the ground seven days and seven nights, and no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his grief was very great.
Job 2:13
A human reading
Often you do not need to say much: being present and listening is enough. Avoid preaching or quick solutions. If you see a risk to their life, seek professional help immediately.
This page offers reflection and companionship; it does not replace a professional. If what you feel weighs heavily or lasts for weeks, talk with someone you trust or with a health professional.